When Puppies Grow Old
I was at Sir Kenneth's Pup Play discussion last night at Apex. Every once in a while my eyes kept tearing up, especially at the end when pups were playing. I can't play anymore. Even the thought of playing scares me, because a combination of old age, myofacial pain, and fibromyalgia has me in so much pain it's difficult just to walk. But that's my body, not my mind or my heart. There was a point where a lady next to me was holding a football-shaped squeeky toy behind her back so that her pup couldn't get it. It was within 2 feet of me. Boy, did I ever want to lunge over, bite it away from her, and run away with it. But I knew that if I tried, I might not even make it to the 'bite it away from her' part before collapsing.
I fantasized for a while - not playing - but being up there with the rest of the pups - sitting next to someone and getting my head scritched. A treat would be nice, too. But based on the rambuncious nature of the other pups up there, I figured I'd be dessimated before I got to a safe spot.
My doctor says that, once some extreme stress, which I have been under for some months, has abated (in early October), then the overwhelming pain will also abate. That would be nice. No. That would be fan-fucking-tastic! Maybe I'll find out that I'm not too old to play.
But, the fact still remains that all young puppies become old puppies, and is there really any room for old puppies in the world of 'puppy play'?
Licks and snuggles,
puppy Peaches (aka slave velvet)

My Pup is also my best friend. He is going to be 13 in human years this November. He started having trouble going upstairs about a year ago, So When he tells me he was to go, (and he really does know how to tell me), I carry him. He has slipped twice coming down, so now he knows he has to wait for me to go first and wait for him, and I spot for him at the bottom, to insure he doesn't fall. He can't run after his favorite ball, very well any more. And can only play for 5 minutes at a time now instead of endless hours. Some mornings he doesn't feel like eating at his dish, so I bring it to him and sit with him and stoke his back while he eats what ever he feels like eating. Then I reasure him he did a great job, and give him his cookie for desert. He is my best friend, and he can have anything he wants, within my power to give him. When I was sick ten years ago, and needed oxygen at night, every night, to keep breathing, while I was asleep, he would wake me however many times during the night, when that god awful contraption would malfunction, and he would not hear me breathing correctly. He would come over and nudge me awake. EVERY TIME. So, I owe him my life, a bunch of times. He did this for three years! Now, he is four pawed, tail wagging, Shetland Sheep Dog. He is not a two legged pup, but some of them are my friends too, and some of them do some pretty wonderful things for a lot of us, and as time goes on, and they start to slow down a little and not move as fast, We should all remember all the wonderful things that our pups, and the pups that belong to our friends, have done for us, and for others in our comunity, and we should do whatever is needed to insure that they get to go where they want, eat what they want, and be included every single time they want. And the same unconditional love that they have offered to us during their younger more active days, should now be given back in the same unconditional maner that THEY taught us, all those years ago. And maybe, just maybe....this could even be extended to those of us in the comunity that don't actually identify as pups but perhaps it should be how we treat everyone?
Koko's Daddy.
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Submitted by Bob on Wed, 09/24/2008 - 6:43pm.It breaks my heart a little bit to read this, and I wish that there was something I could do. There is certainly a place for aged pups in our community, they just need more tender loving care than some other pups.
Many pups are broken, in various ways. Some pups have been damaged mentally, and need that TLC, some have been damaged Spiritually, and need that TLC, some have been damaged Physically. It does not make them any less of a pup, or mean that they deserve to have their pup ignored, it means extra care and caution when handling these pups.
In my world, all pups are valuable, and all pups should have the love and care that they need. puppy Peaches, if you ever want scritches, just walk up to me and put my hand on your head, and I'll scritch. If I have treats and you want one, bark once, and I'll come to you.
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Submitted by Kenneth on Thu, 07/10/2008 - 11:30am.Thank you for the offer of scritches and treats, Sir Kenneth. I will certainly be taking you up on it. Scritches are an instantaneous transport to nirvana for me.(And I'll quit with all the glitter; I guess I was a hazard zone tonight for anyone who got near me.)
puppy Peaches
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Submitted by puppy Peaches on Sat, 07/19/2008 - 12:30am.